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The Married Life Ain’t For Everyone

You ever heard the term why settle for less ? Being in a relationship is great. You can build a home together. Start a family and give each other economic support and comfort. You guys do not even have to worry about the stresses of life. You found the perfect person. Someone who is willing to help mold and build you’r dreams. Then you found out they are not happy. This person wants to explore the world and feel something different. They want to see a change.  They got tired of doing the same mundane everyday they wake up. A new experience is calling them. Tired of sharing the same things, they want to live life on the edge.

A person never got a chance for an experience of their lifetime. They still have not accomplished all their goals they been wanting to since high school. They feel an urge to do something different in their life. That is when you see wifey dressed up bout to hit the club everyday. That is when you bout to see the man that is the dream of your eyes get big purchases. You guys are in your early thirties already going through a midlife crisis.

When we are in our early twenties that is when you have to have the biggest adventures of your life. Why be happy with the person you are settling your life in with when there is different subsections to life you are willing to explore. You might miss out on certain life experiences if you choose to settle with this someone. Going through a harsh break up is not the end of the world people. It is a chance to re-define your soul so you can become a new person. Waiting to break out of the shell you was once in. Maybe that might make the relationship you was doing in the past; become stronger.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I Trade My Money In for Madness

I use to be the one that sits back and let life control me. I think that life is a simple thing to be figured out. Often it is over complicated by the emotional context it is surrounded by. When we have a woman we adore so much, we did not even stop to realize the beauty that is in our self . Putting our own happiness in the hands of another. We give our power to them. Not knowing the beauty of the relationship has to come from within first. That is most of what it is when we look at the content of enjoyment. If I do not love myself and what I do I can not take control of my destiny. I will be stuck doing the same routines over and over again. Why do I bump my head and nothing is working out for me ? Why do I care about the personal opinions of others.

When we start to care about the personal opinions of others we often hold ourselves back. Being stuck in the same context not growing to see our results potential be plentiful. I rather pick up on new skills and take life by the horns instead of let life hold me back. I rather take my happiness in my own hands then let someone else control it. Money is the root of success, I rather go out and be the best me possible. Collecting income from what I love to do. Utilizing the gift god has gave me in order to be the happiest me possible. Us as a human race are missing that in life.