You ever heard the term why settle for less ? Being in a relationship is great. You can build a home together. Start a family and give each other economic support and comfort. You guys do not even have to worry about the stresses of life. You found the perfect person. Someone who is willing to help mold and build you’r dreams. Then you found out they are not happy. This person wants to explore the world and feel something different. They want to see a change. They got tired of doing the same mundane everyday they wake up. A new experience is calling them. Tired of sharing the same things, they want to live life on the edge.
A person never got a chance for an experience of their lifetime. They still have not accomplished all their goals they been wanting to since high school. They feel an urge to do something different in their life. That is when you see wifey dressed up bout to hit the club everyday. That is when you bout to see the man that is the dream of your eyes get big purchases. You guys are in your early thirties already going through a midlife crisis.
When we are in our early twenties that is when you have to have the biggest adventures of your life. Why be happy with the person you are settling your life in with when there is different subsections to life you are willing to explore. You might miss out on certain life experiences if you choose to settle with this someone. Going through a harsh break up is not the end of the world people. It is a chance to re-define your soul so you can become a new person. Waiting to break out of the shell you was once in. Maybe that might make the relationship you was doing in the past; become stronger.