Over domination of the mind and lack of communication will ruin your relationship. Love should present comfort through conversation and acceptance. I once was a person that completely shut down the ideas expressed by a significant other. This is not a beautiful thing, it is not a joyous occasion shared by others. You are creating an uncomfortable situation between two lovers. Jolted on friction, causing a thought of having an affair in the back of their minds. Even worse, a tough break-up. You completely lose the spirit of your significant other to the point of no return. All respect has been lost at this point. You see the person you we’re so madly in love with as the most disgusting creature that can walk this planet.
Her: Babe, I want to go on a beautiful adventure across town. We need to go out and enjoy the scenery more.
Me: Sure, lets throw money across the town. Parading around like a peasent.
Her: Baby, where is this coming from….
Me: We need to pay our bills like real talk.
Her: We have not went out in over a decade. We have been studying so hard trying to reach higher points in life with our schooling and all. We both need to take time out and enjoy each other companies.
Me: I be better off taking my own advice.
Her: Falls asleep
At this point she is not in-tune to her lovers words. The voice that suppose to resonate with her soul giving off a dance with a strong desire is put on cinder by an icy approach. She is in a deep sleep, going off into her dreams of comfort. At this point, two lovers are not interacting and the dream that is shared is now in self-indulged comfort. The other person precedes to back-lash out of anger. Not knowing what steps to take next. Have you ever seen a person frustrations turn into laser sharp focus on their lover making instant targets. We have crying, name calling and even viscous assaults at each other in a control for power.
I believe you can be protected by ministering your significant other through the power of god. In that sense you can sacrifice the will of your own to see the bigger picture. Which in-deed will broaden the communication skills that both you guys can have. I can re-phrase this by saying let your pride down just for love too be build on the forefront of what potential happiness shared by two can hold.